Tuesday, December 7, 2010
In fact, the last time I posted a story about my trips -- aside from last month's visit to the Northwestern-Illinois game at Wrigley, was July 11th. Oops. I suppose I should post one of these more often than once every five months. After all, the idea, originally, was to do it every week. But that might have been shooting a little high.
Either way, I know you've all been experiencing a life that is, in general, severely lacking without these stories, so I've come to cure your ills. And while this story is still pretty rough, distended and doesn't quite come full circle in the conclusion like I'd like it to, but it is a totally awesome stadium, a vaguely interesting, and given that we're currently in the middle of the annual Jewish festival of lights, and that this story is excerpted from a chapter that is supposed to deal with my Judaism, it seemed reasonably prescient for you all to see at this time of year.
And so, without any further ado, I present to you my long, distended, and unlikely-to-be-read-in-its-entirety-by-anyone story of my trip earlier this year to see the Giants get absolutely waxed by the Indianapolis Colts.
Originally written September 28, 2010.
It was on a bus in a rest stop just outside the southern Israeli City of Eilat that Brian Garfinkel said something that let me know I wasn’t alone in my own insanity.
“I heard it through the grapevine that you have a short-term plan to see all the professional sports teams,” he said.
At the time I was in Israel on a program known as Birthright, which provided all North American Jews between the ages of 18 and 26 a free ten-day trip to Israel, the purpose of which was to show you the wonder, imbue you with a stronger connection to your faith and heritage and in extreme cases, encourage you to move to Israel, marry Jewish and repopulate the Holy Land. At the time I had no intentions of moving to Israel, nor was I particularly religious. Frankly, those are still true. My only real purpose for going on the trip was because it was a free international vacation with the reputation of being summer camp with sex and alcohol.
In some respects it was exactly that. And it was in no uncertain terms an amazing experience.
rugelach sold at Marzipan Bakery in Jerusalem. But I did see a heightened importance in my own mind for raising my children Jewish as a necessity rather than a preference. Whether they believed in a God was their position to figure out on their own, but they will read from the Torah and they will listen to their parents complain at every High Holy Day, as is the tradition.
What I hadn’t anticipated was that the trip would give me new partners in crime as I cavorted around the country watching sporting events, but at the very least, it seemed I had one man, Brian, who wanted in. While Brian and I have many plans yet to come to fruition, the fortunate thing about this trip was that he wasn’t the only person who expressed interest in tagging along for a few stops on the journey. As it so happened, Dov Turner, a native of Kansas City cum resident of Chicago was also intrigued by the idea – or at least easy going enough not to reject the suggestion. Dov and I made a racket during the trip of calling the only two-person room for males at each stop so we wouldn’t have to share a bathroom with too many people. And from that strong foundation grew a promising friendship. A few weeks after returning to the U.S., the NFL released the Giants’ 2010 schedule and one particular game stuck out at me. In week two, the Giants would visit the Colts in Indianapolis for the second ever Manning Bowl. Two teams with high aspirations and Super Bowl MVP-winning quarterbacks who just happened to be brothers of the NFL’s Royal quarterback family would be taking the field. I decided I had to be there, and Dov was nice enough to oblige in joining in with me.
It seems fairly likely that I will always associate my trip to Indianapolis with Yom Kippur, the one Jewish holiday I actually take relatively seriously. In fact, when I had realized when Yom Kippur fell in 2010, which was after I had bought my plane tickets and game tickets, I was relieved to see that I did not actually schedule the trip for the Day of Atonement. Had I done so, I probably wouldn’t have taken it.
At this stage of my life, I’ve fallen out of the habit of attending services, but I still refrain from food or drink from sundown til as long as I can last the next day. Sometimes this is all the way until sundown and other times I tap out around 4:30 or 5 pm. In recent years, I’ve had more difficulty maintaining the fast because Grandma Barbara now hosts an annual catered feast to celebrate the end of the holiday and everyone’s clean slate. This typically includes a wide schmorgasboard of items ranging from potato salads to regular salads to lox, salmon, white fish, salami, roast beef, bagels, rye bread and a host of other items provided in quantities that could feed well more than the average attendance requires. Usually this is a blessing for my brother and I. Elliott and I have made a habit of collecting leftover cold cuts and making sandwiches with them for days after for several years now. One Yom Kippur saw us chowing down on enormous salami and roast beef sandwiches the next morning as we got together to see the positively silly and yet epic action film Shoot ‘Em Up with Clive Owen and Paul Giamatti.
As I sat on the subway and then waited for the Q33 bus, I didn’t think much of the wait, though I noticed I was going to be cutting it a little close for my 9:41 departure. I wasn’t checking any luggage since the trip was going to be a grand total of 20 hours, so I assumed I would be fine, but I arrived at the airport to experience a stunning surprise. Regardless of checked bags, Air Tran Airways required you to check in to your flight at least 30 minutes prior to take off. This bit of noteworthy information was nowhere to be found on my ticket, and so I, unaware, arrived at the check-in counter 23 minutes before takeoff and was not allowed to board. I was told I would be put on the next flight, but that wouldn’t be leaving for seven hours, and it would touch down at 7:12 p.m., barely an hour before kickoff. My plans were ruined, my day was shot, and my on-time arrival at the whole purpose of the trip was severely in jeopardy.
I used to be prone to massive explosions of frustration, but in recent years I have made a concerted effort to relax, take the long view and keep my head cool in nearly all situations.
What proceeded was a massive temper tantrum where I pulled off the balancing act of yelling at the flight representatives and apologizing to them for my behavior all at the same time. Next came a long expletive-filled rant on the phone with my mother and father, both of whom gave me suggestions for how to try and get on an earlier flight with a different airline. I went back and forth to several terminals to see where I could find a seat and found that none were available beneath the rather steep price of $440. One was $1,100. Why an airline would raise prices and prevent a seat from being filled in the final hour before a plane departs is beyond me. In essence they could have $100 instead of none should the seat stay empty.
But no matter.
I was stuck at LaGuardia for seven hours until my 5 o’clock Indy-bound flight took off and that was that. For the next hour or so I ran through all the morning’s events in my head, taking particular note of anything unnecessary I had done or any act of random chance that could have shaved off the seven minutes I needed to make it on time. The subway train hadn’t arrived for four minutes when I got to the platform. The Q33 bus didn’t leave 74th St and Broadway for 10 minutes. I took a wholly unneeded shower when I woke up. I finished packing my bags after the shower with the few last items I would need. I made a sandwich from my grandmother’s Yom Kippur leftovers. I actually took the time to make a sandwich.
I MADE A SANDWICH.
Why on Earth did I decide to make a fucking sandwich?!
“How are you doing?” he said.
After noticing my Giants jersey and my destination, the security personnel put together that I was going to the game that night, and while he knew I would have little time to spare before game time, he reassured me, “At least the Giants will win. Then we’ll both be happy.”
This seemed like little consolation for my entire touristy day in Indianapolis being gone, particularly since I wasn’t expecting a victory. Aside from being, well, better than the Giants are, the Colts had lost their season opener in Houston in a reasonably-sized upset despite how competitive the Texans were expected to be this year. I could not fathom the horseshoes starting the season 0-2. To put in perspective just how good and well-rounded the Colts were, the season before my visit they won their first 14 games before handing the last two over in a highly controversial move to rest their starters. After a brief scare in the first half of the AFC Championship game against the upstart Jets, the Colts danced into Super Bowl XLIV where they lost a much tighter game than the 31-17 final score would indicate. Were it not for a surprise onside kick by New Orleans to start the second half, or one or two other minor incidents in the fourth quarter, Indianapolis might have had its second title in four years. To put it simply, a year earlier the Colts had lost only one game in which they actually tried to win – the biggest one of the season. Losing the season opener a year later was a dramatic shock to the system that Indy was unlikely to leave unanswered.
Knowing that and anticipating the loss, I was in the trip entirely for the purposes of seeing the city and checking out what was supposed to be a gorgeous stadium. Most of that was now gone, but I used my time wisely. I called the Indianapolis Enterprise Rent-A-Car to arrange to have my contract drawn up in hopes of expediting the trip from my plane to my car. If that morning taught me nothing, it was that every moment was precious.
Lambeau Field jaunt in 2006 and a venture to Turner Field in Atlanta four months earlier was flying out of LaGuardia at 5:45 and, as luck would have it, departing from the gate right next to mine. I knew Kyle was in New York that weekend, but we had been unable to meet up. By a random twist of fate, we would be spending the afternoon in the airport together, and fortunately the terminal’s sports bar provided enough football games to distract me from my bungled itinerary. Kyle arrived, we watched a few games, caught up and generally had a good time. If my day was mostly ruined I was going to be making the best of it.
Eventually, I boarded my plane and settled in for what was a relatively smooth flight. I wound up sitting next to a 31-year-old woman who taught Spanish in the Indianapolis public schools. She was nice, slightly high strung, conservative and had an adorable Midwest/southern hybrid accent. But she was also jarringly loud. Throughout most of our conversation I tried to speak in hushed tones hoping she would follow suit and spare the passengers around us who might have been napping, but that was a futile battle. During her weekend in New York, she and her twin sister did a Sex and the City-themed tour that provided them with overpriced cosmopolitans and her first-ever visit to a porn shop. If a relatively liberal, easy-going person like me finds those places overwhelming, I can’t imagine how she handled it.
As soon as the plane touched down, I bolted out of my seat and made my way towards the front of the plane so I could sprint through the airport and get to my car quickly. Locals reassured me I had plenty of time to get to the stadium, but with the minutes ticking away I wouldn’t be calm until Dov and I were in our seats at kickoff. I jetted through the concourse until I reached the Enterprise lot where, sure enough, a man was waiting for me with a set of keys and a clipboard. I signed and he told me to enjoy the game, at which point I said to him, “That all depends on the Giants.”
“Well,” he replied, “in that case, I hope you don’t enjoy it too much.”
As I coordinated with Dov, who had spent the afternoon checking out museums and drinking copiously, I sped down I-70 East in my bright yellow economy car, which amazingly did not have power locks, only to find I was, in fact, going to be fine. The drive from the airport to Lucas Oil Stadium was t most 10 minutes. Maybe it would get stretched to 12 with traffic. One thing they could stand to have, however, are some better highway signs. There was almost no mention of the stadium, which caused me to miss my first chance to turn off and pull into a lot. When I finally got off the highway and navigated the crush of marching blue-clad Colts fans, I waved to a policeman who was standing at the corner and asked him where there was parking.
The man was a terrible actor.
Ironically, the first thing Dov said to me was, “Is it just me or are the breasts …. larger in this part of the country?”
After everything, Dov and I wound up together at the stadium with nearly a half hour to spare before kickoff. I had arrived, safe and sound, tickets in hand, all was well. Lucas Oil Stadium is a tremendous, tremendous facility. Because of the uniformity of a football stadium, making it architecturally interesting is a challenge in and of itself. What had brought the craze of stadium building back to life in baseball was the retro themes inherent in Camden Yards. Football stadiums for the decade of the 1990s stayed behind that trend. In the late 1990s stadiums began to seize on the retro feel, adding red brick to the design of their exteriors, but Lucas Oil Stadium brings these efforts to a new level, and to me, feels like the quintessential answer to baseball’s retro romance.
a face mask made of HDTVs. At the very least, the advertisements seemed contained within the Colts’ theme. The north end of the building features a large glass window that provides views of downtown and allows natural light to pour into the stadium even if the roof is closed. The concourses are wide and spacious – they even have gigantic ceiling fans to keep customers cool – the Colts’ presence is enhanced by the speed blue colored seats and all of the sightlines, even if you’re in the far reaches of the upper deck like we were, are tremendous.
Oh, and it’s loud.
For a stadium that is open and holds only 63,000 people – a relatively small capacity by NFL standards – it is shockingly loud. If anyone ever thought to question how rabid a fanbase Indianapolis might have, one trip there will dispel that notion. The residents are passionate, obsessed and quite possibly possessed.
And sweet lord they are loud.
As the Giants took the ball for their first drive I couldn’t hear myself think, which makes me wonder how on Earth any of New York’s linemen could possibly have heard Eli Manning. My head actually started to hurt and one friend sent me a text message to inquire as to whether it was actually as loud as it seemed on TV. I told him it was louder. Dov meanwhile, was fielding texts from his girlfriend who intimated that she might actually watch the game on TV in hopes of seeing him. He told her he’d be the one in blue.
2009 AFC Championship to the rafters, a deserved achievement. But in addition to Conference titles and division championships, others touted Wild Card playoff berths and the presumed title of “AFC Finalist” from their unlikely run to the AFC Championship Game in 1995. For a stadium that is, in so many other respects, so well done, these dramatic grabs at pieces of history seemed hacky. I was half surprised not to see a banner touting Peyton Manning by calling the Colts “1998 NFL Draft No. 1 Pick Champions”. Perhaps more interesting is there seems to be nothing in the stadium about the team’s history in Baltimore, which may be appropriate considering Johnny Unitas asked them to unretired his number because he never played in Indianapolis. The closest link to their Baltimore past is that former owner Robert Irsay is in the stadium’s ring of honor, though to anyone with a sense of NFL history, this seems a bit controversial. At least he’s also accompanied by Northwestern alum Chris Hinton.
If it seems like I’m almost ignoring the fact that there was also a game going on, it’s because a game typically requires both teams to be competitive to be considered “a game”. And this was not that. Indianapolis jumped out to a 24-0 halftime lead, outgained the Giants by 153 yards and took advantage of three New York turnovers in an eventual 38-14 romp. Peyton only threw one more touchdown pass than Eli, but the Colts solidly bested the Giants in just about every facet of the game. The only aspect New York might have had an advantage in would have come if a spontaneous discus competition broke out, which is what I assume running back Brandon Jacobs was practicing for when he accidentally tossed his helmet into the stands, a move that cost him $10,000 in fines.
The best part of the game itself was that my needed bathroom break in the first half came just as the Giants made a coaches challenge so I would miss nothing. Considering what transpired on the field, however, that was probably a bad thing. At least my pulled pork sandwich was good even if it immediately gave me more to atone for next year.
actually included scenes from Hoosiers, which made it almost too ridiculous to be real. It was a far more tasteful video montage when compared with a bizarre sequence in the second half in which the Colts’ mascots were on the video screen performing very sexually suggestive dance moves. This was particularly odd considering team owner Jim Irsay is well known for his strong religious and family values.
After the disastrous exercise on the field came to a close, Dov and I sat in our seats and waited for the stadium to filter out so we could take a few more pictures of the place when it was empty, which enabled you to see hidden goodies like the Colts logo in the seats of the upper deck. I realized at this point that Dov was an extremely pleasant person to see a game with. He’s easy going, he doesn’t mind arriving early, he stays til the end even if it’s a blowout and he doesn’t care about looking like a tourist when taking an endless stream of photographs. And perhaps most importantly, he was willing to travel by himself to a sporting event that he had absolutely no vested interest in whatsoever. As a result, it probably won’t be the last time I invite him to tag along.
I guess something meaningful, impactful and lasting actually came out of that trip to Israel.
so covered with dirt it was nearly opaque. The room nearly ousted the Econo Lodge in St. Louis five years earlier as the dirtiest I had ever stayed in.
I shouldn’t bash it too much, probably because I didn’t get to try out the “gym”, which was one windowless room with a treadmill, but at least there was a continental breakfast of instant orange juice, biscuits and gravy. We left the hotel after a nap and headed to the airport and found the bleak early-morning light made the area look about how you’d expect a barren field in Indiana to look.
As I waited in the gate area I looked around at the rest of the passengers, all of whom appeared to be depressed Giants fans, who looked like they had just been beaten like they stole something. Perhaps they all ate on Yom Kippur, and the previous night’s whipping was punishment for ignoring the holiest day on the calendar. That seems unlikely considering a number of them were almost certainly not Jewish. Next time I see the Giants on the road, maybe they’ll win and we’ll all leave a little happier.
Of course, we should take it one step at a time. I should probably just focus on waking up early enough to actually make my flight.